I wasn't always part of a power couple.
Before I met my wife, I felt like I was just like any other guy. I was coaching high-end clients twice my age on dating advice - they’d fly out to work with me, paying a pretty penny to learn how to meet “the one.”
The problem I had with all that power is that it came with a massive amount of responsibility. Being 100% confident, I could walk up to anyone and get their number in under 30 minutes. I regularly got dates with my perfect 10 woman, and I was coaching others to do the same.
Like most power players™ and strong-willed people, I thought all the issues in my relationships were because of them, not me. I thought there was nothing wrong with me. As a power player™, I didn’t think I’d have to do any extra work. I felt like I deserved my queen, like I was entitled to her.
If I’d only known then what I know now.
My wake up call happened at a Salsa dancing club, sitting at a table with an incredibly beautiful, and intelligent woman having a good ol’ time. As I’m watching her lips, listening to her words, I could hear that little voice in my head jibber-jabbering, saying:
She’s just like your ex!
It was like I was watching a old movie. She was a carbon copy of my ex - different face, same go-getter personality.
I was pissed.
I felt bad for her.
I realized it wasn’t her, it was me.
I felt bad for all the women I’d given up over the years because I thought they were the problem. I was always blaming them rather than accepting responsibility for my actions (or lack thereof), and the realization hit me like I got socked in the gut.
That day triggered something deep within me.
At the time, it had only been three months since we’d split ways - I was crushed.
I remember sitting in my car with the engagement ring I was planning on giving her that month, crying about how I felt I’d lost myself - I tried so hard to be the person she expected me to be in our relationship. I did everything I could to prove myself.
In this moment of anger and grief, I decided the only way to move forward was to go to the top of a cliff - to make everything feel better.
Okay, so maybe launching her very extravagant engagement ring off the edge of a cliff into the ocean with all my might wasn’t the smartest idea. But that impulsive moment was my wake up call.
That hot-headed action showed me not only that I wanted her in my life again, but also revealed what I needed to do to win the love of my life back.
That’s the day I discovered the person I actually resented was myself - for creating a massive imbalance in the 3 Domains of a Power Player™.
From the moment I met my (now) wife, she knocked my freakin’ socks off. (You ever met that person yourself?)
We were inseparable, and wow it felt beyond good… She was the woman of my dreams, the complete package.
We traveled the world together, experiencing life for all of its beauty and magic… I was the pilot and she was the co-pilot on our adventure-seeking explorations - we experienced cultures and places we’d only dreamed of seeing with our own eyes. We were living our limitless possibilities, there was nothing we couldn’t do together.
We were amazing together, the dynamic duo, the ultimate team, growing into our Power Couple™ potential.
The “new love buzz” only lasted as long as we didn’t try to change each other.
But unfortunately, this just wasn’t our reality. We started pushing each other’s buttons.
Now, don’t let the beard and deep voice fool you... I’m a lover, not a fighter. While I am a second degree black belt and can definitely lay the hammer down, I much rather support others into bettering themselves.
She was my queen, and I did all the little extra things that would make her happy - at least that’s what I told myself.
When she was unhappy, I made it a practice to step up and be an even better man - I honestly never worked so hard for any relationship.
I’d forgotten the most important lesson during my ten years of coaching other power players.
I don't want you to make this same mistake.
If you made it this far, this story definitely struck a chord within you.
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